I’ve become pretty rigid in what I eat, and quite the
proselytizer. I try not to be, because I
know that everyone has to come to their own decisions about what they eat. I
just feel so good. So, I’ll tell you
what’s worked for me, why it’s worked, but I’ll qualify it by saying you have
to do what works for you. First let’s
talk about revelations.
In January 2011 when I saw my Sweetie Jack crying over his
mother’s hospital bed, I knew that it could easily be me. She has diabetes and
her disorientation and lack of recognizing anyone was due to an infection
brought on by diabetes. That was my first revelation. I didn’t want either Jack
or Christopher (my son) crying over my hospital bed because I just had to have
another piece of chocolate cake or a pile of potatoes. So, a big part of what’s
worked for me is an internal emotional shift about food and how I think of it.
I eat like my life depends on it, because it does.
Concurrent with this revelation, came my reading of Why we Get Fat and What to Do about It (Gary
Taubes), along with The New Atkins
(it’s not the same as the old, so don’t pick up an old Atkins book and think it
will do). I really can’t say enough about reading these books. They are the
second part of what gave me the drive to stick with this so much. If you only
read one, pick up the New Atkins. Really read it. It explains the science—or
lack of science—behind weight loss. The New Atkins is a largely vegetable diet,
moderate protein, and high fat. (I said, read the science—I know that’s
contrary to what we’ve been told for so long, but the science is compelling. In
fact I was so mad at the establishment after reading Why we Get Fat. There’s no strong science for the theory of
limiting fat to make yourself thinner. But that’s a political story.) The main point is, the books also inspired me.
During all of this I knew that I was going to cook potatoes
and bread and all those other goodies for my guys. No one can be saved by
anyone else. We have to save ourselves. So, I also knew that I’d cook the same
things I always did. I also knew that I had to be okay with being around cookies
and doughnuts—the workplace is a dangerous territory.
Now, we eat a pretty good diet, so most of it wasn’t hard. I
just stopped eating the white stuff: wheat, corn, potatoes, rice, sugar—you
know the usual suspects. I started eating a lot more vegetables. Atkins
recommends 6 cups of salad veggies a day and two cups of other veggies. I love
salad so I’m good with that. I have a hard time getting that many veggies in a
day, but as long as I try, I do well. I aim for 6-8 oz of protein a day, and
don’t go over 14. I make sure I get my fats—I don’t buy anything low fat; those
things generally have more carbs in them. I eat up to 3 or 4 oz of cheese a
day. I snack on nuts and protein cakes (I have a fabulous microwave cake
recipe). I do jello during the warm months.
I look at cake and potatoes and bread and know they taste
good. I imagine what they taste like and know I’ve had them before and they
still taste the same way, but I feel different. So, I have no problem saying
no. I mean really, haven’t I had enough mashed potatoes in my life? Do they
taste any different now than they did then? Isn’t a stuffed mushroom, a
jalapeño popper, or decked out chef salad just as good? I love broccoli, so
even that is just as good as potatoes to me.
I feel better; I wake up more alert and with a clearer mind.
And, the box of clothes that are too big that I keep in my closet has been
emptied and given away four times! It is a great feeling to put something on in
the morning, realize it’s really too big and toss it in that box. (I am not
keeping fat clothes—I hate shopping, so I’ll make it double painful to go back:
cash on clothes and having to shop for them!)
I’m happier. Getting
the white and processed carbs out of my diet has changed my feelings. I wake up clear headed. I don’t feel the blues at all the way I used
to. Diet? I don’t know, but I’m not arguing with success.
On top of all of that, I’m good at finding recipes. We eat
chocolate cake (love protein powder), when I really want a sandwich, I make a
flax bun. Pumpkin pie, peanut butter fudge, yeah, all of those things. Jack was
telling one of his friends the other day that he wasn’t worried if the day came
and he had to give up bread and potatoes—I had it all figured out and he wouldn’t
have to sacrifice a bit.
But, Jack’s also inspired me. When he gave up sugar because
he had pre-diabetic symptoms—he gave it up. He’s really taught me how to say
no. You just do it. Every time you do it, it gets easier.
Finally, I’m terrified. Now that I’ve lost so much, 50
pounds with 50 more to go, I am terrified of going back. Additionally, I’m
actually allergic to wheat and corn, and now that I haven’t had any of them for
a year, I’m terrified my allergy will be worse—you know allergies can be made
milder by consistent exposure in small does to the allergen. I figure if I eat
corn or wheat now I’ll blow up like a balloon.
I never think of it as a diet. A diet implies I'm
going off of it at some point, and then I'm right back where I started.
Anything that really works has to be just a change. So, I don't eat those
things any more. That's just the way it is. If people give me a hard time about
it, I say I'm allergic to it. They stop pushing stuff on me if I say that.
Besides, sugar, wheat and corn clearly made me swell.
So that’s my story. I’m going to die some day, but I’d like
to be in control of my mind and body if at all possible. I know the biggest
obstacle to that is carrying all the extra weight I’m carrying. This works for
me. I eat food I like, and once in a while (PMS) I even pig out on those good
foods. I am more alert and aware. I sleep better and wake better. Is it the
only thing that would work? I don’t know; but it’s right for me.
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